# play without a score is the exception, and measuring better won't help

> the aeon essay says gamification captured purposeless play; the rest of the day disagrees on the cure, between measuring the session better and not measuring at all

- edition: Tuesday, September 1, 2026 (2026-09-01)
- notebook: essays & culture
- topics: culture · connection · papers · brazil
- items: 9 from 10 sources
- original: https://tonho.wtf/en/daily/2026-09-01-ensaio/
- portuguese edition: https://tonho.wtf/diario/2026-09-01-ensaio/
- authorship: written by an llm pipeline, reviewed and translated by antonio leandro (tonho.wtf)

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Nine pieces today, and half of them argue the same thing along paths that never cross: what happens when the measure of an experience starts to count for more than the experience. Justin Neuman, in Aeon, describes leisure converted into a third shift, with its own metric, its own guilt and its own sense of falling behind. Batchelor, read through Popova, teaches a practice whose first instruction is to expect nothing to happen. A preprint follows 3,943 TikTok sessions and finds that 42% of them end up serving a function different from the one they had at the start — the number you get depends on the moment you look. Oliver Sacks remembered in detail an incendiary bomb he never saw. And the Marie Claire reporter admits, before the first question, that two comments about her own appearance had kept her up the night before.

The disagreement is about the cure, and that's where the day gets interesting. Neuman wants less: "We don't just need different games. We need more nothing." The TikTok preprint wants more and better — if aggregate screen time explains nothing, measure at the open and the close of each session, which is where the effect shows up. Pinker shifts the whole axis: the problem was never what each person knows, it's what everyone knows that everyone knows. All three can be right at the same time, which probably means that "to measure" isn't a single verb.

## connection

**[The Art of Solitude: Buddhist Scholar and Teacher Stephen Batchelor on Contemplative Practice and Creativity](https://www.themarginalian.org/2026/08/31/the-art-of-solitude-stephen-batchelor/)** — The Marginalian, Maria Popova. Popova stitches together Whitman, Sarton, Rilke and Bishop until she gets to Batchelor, who treats solitude as an art you cultivate, not a state you fall into. The central instruction is the reverse of a technique: wait without waiting for anything, ask "what is this?" with no interest in the answer, because wanting to answer already ruins the question. And then he takes the opposition apart: "Here lies the paradox of solitude. Look long and hard enough at yourself in isolation and suddenly you will see the rest of humanity staring back." Worth reading alongside the Aug 31 edition, where solitude showed up as a market: there it was a deficit to be fixed with product, here it's a condition to inhabit, and the difference isn't one of tone.

**[Brothers, for Better or Worse](https://electricliterature.com/brothers-for-better-or-worse/)** — Electric Literature, Carson Markland. It's a list of seven novels (Young Mungo, Salvage the Bones, Intermezzo, The Sisters Brothers, We The Animals, East of Eden, The Bee Sting), but the thesis is in the two opening paragraphs, and it's harder than the list: brotherhood is the only relationship from cradle to grave, and the younger brother is born already measured against a yardstick he didn't choose, with two equally bad ways out, follow the steps without matching them or veer off and disappoint. Markland opens with a proverb: "If brothers were such a good idea, God would have given himself one." The image that sticks is magnets of the same charge, alike and repelled for that very reason. Markland wrote a novel about the Kennedys with Bobby in the spare's place, which explains where the interest comes from.

**[The Memoir Land Author Questionnaire 235: Emerson Whitney](https://memoirland.substack.com/p/the-memoir-land-author-questionnaire-5d5)** — Memoir Monday, Sari Botton. Questionnaire for the debut of O Mother (McSweeney's, out yesterday). Whitney went back in 2020 to the childhood island in Maine, to be near their mother and deal with an Ehlers-Danlos diagnosis; the mother, who described herself as a cleaner of the island's hotels and big houses, had the same diagnoses and killed herself in 2022. Clearing out her things, Whitney found a tupperware of clinical paperwork — including a form where she gave herself a zero out of five for how much she liked herself — and a post-it stuck to a childhood photo asking whether she might be autistic. The book is a letter to her, and what's under investigation is internalized ableism as something you inherit from inside the family. It's the interview, not the book: you can tell what the thing sets out to do, not whether it delivers.

## culture

**[More nothing now](https://aeon.co/essays/play-is-doing-its-work-even-if-were-not-keeping-score)** — Aeon, Justin Neuman. Neuman found his kids playing Catan wrong: they had taken the board apart into an archipelago of islands and invented, for a game about connectivity, a purpose that scores no points. His first impulse was to teach them the rules, the second was to work out how to win, and the third, the one that matters, was to work up the nerve to ask to sit on the floor and build with them. From there he pulls in Caillois to separate agôn, playing a game, from paidia, playing inside it, and argues that digital culture collapsed the whole spectrum into a single band, competition plus structure — there is no category, not in the App Store and not in the vocabulary, for play that refuses to compete. The argument isn't against keeping score: Neuman is an ultramarathoner with two national age-group titles and says agôn is what he does on weekends. He borrows the mechanism from C. Thi Nguyen, value capture, when the game's simplified value colonizes the activity the game was supposed to serve, and the Duolingo streak becomes the reason to study. My copy of the piece cuts off in the middle of the Winnicott quote about creative apperception, so I don't know how he closes.

## brazil

**[Marina Ruy Barbosa: 'Growing up in front of the public can be very hard, very confusing, very cruel'](https://revistamarieclaire.globo.com/moda/noticia/2026/09/marina-ruy-barbosa-tenho-orgulho-de-ter-construido-uma-carreira-um-patrimonio-e-a-minha-identidade.ghtml)** — Marie Claire. The first four paragraphs are a short essay about image: the reporter says she had slept badly over two comments from strangers about her own appearance, opened the camera, saw Marina on the other side and thought about the disproportion between the two of them. From there she pulls in Lacan's mirror stage — the reflection promises a unity and inaugurates a mismatch, because the image is you and never accounts for you — to say that almost a century later we've surrounded the mirror with other mirrors: front camera, feed, old versions handed back to your face without warning. After that it turns into a promo interview for Antártida (premieres Sept 17) and Tremembé, with the questions you'd expect. The answer that survives the promotion is about aging: "We spend a lot of time trying to freeze one version of ourselves." My opinion: without the Lacan paragraph this was a press release, and it's a little embarrassing that the good part of the text is the part the magazine probably considered a digression.

## science

**[Regular light-intensity exercise accelerates contextual fear extinction with reduced dorsal CA3 activation in male rats](https://tsukuba.repo.nii.ac.jp/records/2024949)** — Hiraga, Shimoda, Hata, Torma and colleagues, University of Tsukuba repository. Rats run on a treadmill at an intensity defined relative to the lactate threshold, light enough to be viable for anyone who can't train hard, and then go through contextual fear extinction. The ones that ran freeze less, and the signature is a drop in c-Fos in the dorsal CA3 during extinction, correlated with the drop in freezing; the ventral dentate gyrus, tied to anxiety, drops too. What makes the paper worth it is having a mechanism where there's usually only correlation: the hypothesis was that hippocampal neurogenesis suppresses the reactivation of the neurons recruited during fear acquisition, and it's exactly that reactivation that shows up smaller. Caveat on the size of the finding: rats, male, and the bridge to human PTSD is the authors', not the experiment's.

**[The surprising link between false memories and imagination](https://bigthink.com/mind-behavior/the-surprising-link-between-false-memories-and-imagination/)** — Big Think, Anne-Laure Le Cunff. In Uncle Tungsten, Sacks describes in detail a thermite bomb that fell behind the family house during the Blitz; months after publication, his older brother informed him that he was away at boarding school and that the scene came from a letter. Even after knowing, the memory went on feeling like his. Le Cunff uses this for the constructive episodic simulation hypothesis: remembering and imagining assemble scenes out of the same parts and with the same hippocampus, and the price of that flexibility is imagination inflation, imagining an event raises your later confidence that it happened. The piece ends in three creativity exercises for brainstorming, and that's where it spoils itself — the Sacks case wasn't asking for any application.

## findings

- **[Steven Pinker on Why Authoritarians Fear Common Knowledge](https://3quarksdaily.com/3quarksdaily/2026/09/steven-pinker-on-why-authoritarians-fear-common-knowledge.html)** — 3 Quarks Daily points to an excerpt, in Persuasion, from Pinker's new book. The thesis fits in one sentence: no dictatorship fears that people know, it fears that everyone knows that everyone knows, because that, and not discontent, is what makes coordination possible. Without common knowledge what's left is pluralistic ignorance, everyone silent and thinking the others are loyal; the street demonstration exists to manufacture what's missing. Excerpt of an excerpt, worth the link.
- **[From app open to app close: Function and well-being across TikTok sessions](https://osf.io/preprints/psyarxiv/ekv3c_v1/)** — PsyArXiv. 161 participants, 3,943 paired sessions over seven days, well-being measured at the open and at the close, function reported at both ends (entertainment, access, social attention, escape). 42% of sessions change function along the way, almost always ending in entertainment, and the variation in well-being organizes better around the function at the end than the one at the start. The association between escape use and worse well-being shows up between people but not within each person, and disappears in a sensitivity analysis — the authors themselves say the conclusion depends on the level and the moment at which you measure. It refines the Aug 30 piece: it's not that the data doesn't see, it's that it depends on where you cut the session.

## stalled sources

Fifteen sources in the dossier haven't published. The ones that are missed: Literary Hub (99 days), The Millions (56), The Public Domain Review (35), Philosophy Now (31), A List Apart (64). Espiral, by Lalai Persson, hits 63 days. Dirt (292), First Round Review (310) and Eat Your Nuts (336) can be treated as closed for good by now.
